A question … which might look … somehow … ridiculous… is why the hell for some couple sex means … a short story of 3–5 minutes … but for some it might be 30–40 minutes … or even one hour?!
But a more weird fact is why the same person can experience … both scenarios?!
What really makes the difference between the story of 3 minutes and one of 30 minutes?!
Well … somehow the answer came to me long time ago … in a coffee shop … staying near my 2 great friends from high school … Maria and Ella.
They both had a secret boyfriend … and we’re discussing lots of things together…. even if it was so related with their … intimacy.
But … i was smiling behind their back … cause i knew that Jack … was that secret lover for both of them.
The funny thing was that Maria … told us that they have a short sexual act … and Ella said … exactly the contrary.
I was staying relaxed … at the coffee shop … in the company of those 2 young beautiful ladies … hearing a discussion… that somehow made … no sense at all.
At that time ….. i was maybe too young … and not really understood … the energies beyond reality.
As a young man … I was not judging Jack for being into the same time with Maria and Ella … but had no idea why one was so satisfied of him …. and the other hated cause sex lasted so, so short time.
Same person… totally different… performances …
Hmm …
Into the end … Jack decided to be just with Ella … even if she liked Maria too.
He told me …. that his intuition was whispering that to him … on million times.
… but deep inside me … i knew why …
Jack simple synchronised perfectly with … Ella … and maybe had absolutely no connection with Maria.
This was for me … probably the first weird story … seen as a total nonsense at that time … that made me think deeper what a real connection between a man and a woman is.
I saw it … indeed … as weird … with no logic … but i knew that i just don’t clearly understand what is really going on.
But later … life made me see that sex is like dancing … and we need to learn how to synchronise.
…. Of course … if it is possible ….
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